As a witch, I observe many things. one of them is a ritual i do every morning for integration of opposites. In this world the energy binary is that of male and female or rather yin and yang, active and passive, day and night, sun and moon. both are necessary and important and complimentary of the other. The unfortunate thing is that in this world, the genders are made to battle on the battlefield of their bodies with sex as the arena. Our sad world is tearing itself to pieces because these two equal and opposite energies now find that the one place they could stroll on common ground together has been desecrated and defiled. Sex is sad and crazy these days. People have major emotional, physical and spiritual problems because their sex lives are somehow imbalanced. from my point of view, the average feminine sexual code and the average masculine sexual code are now incompatible. modern men and women are sexually incompatible, to a certain degree, and all this sexual frustration is cultivated, stroked, fueled and flamed by the jerks who programmed everyone to want to be some famous sex slave. the point is: there is a war going on for your mind. the powers that be want men and women at war with themselves. it's all very 1984. sex and sexual love is a power they cannot control and they fear it as a source of energy for revolt. they know the love between masculine energy and feminine energy will always find a way. so every morning i light one stick of incense for myself and for women and i light one stick of incense for my husband and for men and i put them in a yin yang burner on the widow where the smoke floats away to the world. i pray for understanding and love and communication and i hope that my blog brings these things to the world also.