I noticed that I have not written about sex, my favoritest of subjects, in quite a while and I think it's about time that I do. There are, as far as I am concerned, many different types of sex with as many different types of people you may sleep with. But I ask: what is the best sex? My answer is this: good sex. Good is better because it's better than bad. Bad sex includes first and foremost, the sex slave trade. Sex Trafficking creates a pall over our earth and inhibits pure joy from being had by all. In cities with a lot of sex slavery, the energy and aura of the entire city is affected and psychically sensitive people like me have to literally move so as not to hear the souls of the sex slaves scream. It's horrifying and must be stopped. Unfortunately, one of the things keeping this filthy system in place is deep, dark magic: magic that echoes throughout our culture. Evil TV enforces it, bad railroad companies, trucking companies and ports authorities support it, the Catholic Church bankrolls it, and defunct sexual scripts in our ungoverned youth all magically "mirror" the evil programming of human trafficking.
Fortunately, that's about the worst of bad sex and there's still a lot of good to be done by having a positive sex life. Taking control of your sex life and not allowing pop culture or yo momma's problems to ruin God's greatest gift to you can also be your greatest gift to the world. People don't realize it, but sex is the most fundamental life force on the planet, for good or bad, and alongside love or hate, sex is the thing. People shoot people because they don't get laid enough. Hell, a bullet leaving a gun is the same thing as jizzing. Everything is sexual: even death is sexualized, and most objects echo our body parts in form and function. Just think about how much sex and getting some govern your life; and if you're suppressing your sex drive, think about how much money you spend on food or whatever because you aren't getting laid. The thing is, you need to have sex, to make a basic human connection. So since you need it, and because it affects you so much, why not make sure you're doing right by your body, mind and spirit? Having healthy sex will not only change your life, it will bring you money, work you out, and give you insight into life.
What most people don't know is that sex doesn't just affect the two people who are doing it. The earth, sky, flora, fauna and entire cosmos can be affected by sex. Like I've said before, sex effects the entire community in waves. And not just like waves of gossip, actual energy waves: if you do it right, sex affects the very fabric of space and time. Going forth into that new and different reality once you have good sex can be amazing, as I hope we all know. Magic and knowledge can enhance this, give it more meaning and bring about more change. Having sex on a full moon, with red candles and with the scent of Dragon's Blood and cinnamon can really do things for your mood. In this entry I hope to enlighten you, as well as darken you, as you come to question your own inner desires. Because honestly, few people out there fuck like witches. ;)
If you do it right, sex can peel the paint right off your fucking walls: it can bend branches, blow winds, and beget new life. It can literally makes it rain or shine or be 70 degrees in December. Especially now in our age of HAARP-altered weather, your sex life can reeeeally affect the sky. But unfortunately, a lot of bad guys know that and they go to great pains to see that you, do not. There are so many terrible sexual scripts running around and all this porn blows expectations way out of proportion. So many images are on the web about a life that isn't real and people who barely exist because they crave approval so badly. It's insane. Not to mention when you revert the letter's back to runes and symbolism stuff, www is a curse on vaginas, denoting two pussies for every one dick. And http is throwing hail at penises by creating a double space, a second world where they experience half-joys and ghost pleasure. So much of the sex industry is dehumanizing to both men and women and really, really terrible, as in, full of terror. I feel like there is an unhealthy amount of fear and violence entwined with "pleasure" in porn, all handed down to kids and adults alike; that and guilt, so so so much guilt. The problem is, the people supporting that system and the people making that crap all probably feel trapped like there is no other world, like there isn't good sex out there for them, with a partner who loves them. And the more they believe that, the farther that reality is for them...
And then there is this really weird reality where mind-controlled famous people live. The women who are controlled are called something like Beta Kitten Slaves and include Beyonce, Angelina Jolie, Miley Cirus, Rihanna, Britney Spears, Katy Perry and Lindsey Lohan. These unfortunate women are under the influence of bad sexual scripts to say the least, Satanic sex magic to say the most. These girls are kept in highly controlled environments that promote insecurity and the need for validation as well as poor sexual habits and really scary outfits. Unbeknownst to them, the symbolism in their "art" reflects a world saturated in the dogma of their undoing: materialism, emotionlessness, shameless self-promotion and self-subjugation, meaningless sex, hypocrisy about their bodies and a never ending display of one's shame as if it were gold. It's rough, to say the least, to be a brainwashed, talentless twit, which is why they never realize all their life is futile: they're too busy being futile and dealing with that to care about anything else. Or who knows, the point is, DO NOT DESIRE TO BE LIKE THESE PEOPLE.
I mean look at her face, she's disassociating, she's not even there. Never really writing your own music, or deciding what movie you do, or where you go or who you talk to is a recipe for bad sex. To have good sex, you must be living a moderately open, free life to meet a good person and have the time or wherewithal to connect to that person sexually. If you work too much, or take care of mommy too much or sister or brother or whatever, you will never have a good sex life because there will never be room in your life for a new energy, a new lover. Plus, anyone you meet will only ever be a projection of whoever is taking up too much room in your life... Anyway, I guess people want to be like Nikki Minaj, but rly, that bitch is an alien or a robot or something. She objectifies, dehumanizes and dominates other women as a schtick in her "music videos". And is her ass even real? This is a photo she herself posted, but like, who took this? Does she even have time to have sex or have a love life? Does she even choose the words that come from her mouth or the clothes she puts on her body? I don't know, but I do know that good sex is also best kept quiet and that displaying your body too much doesn't leave much just for your lover. Being mum and prim about sex can actually make it much more special and intimate and sexy. Plus it keeps all the magic in. Otherwise, who cares? We don't want to know.
Because when too many people know about your sex life, it gets weird. First you sort of internalize all the attention and sometimes start to compete with your partner for it. Lots of loose men and women come around and make themselves available to you or your partner and, trust me, that is no good. You start to feel like you have to meet expectations as a couple and as individuals. This can make for some serious fights and added insecurities. Being celebrated for having sex with each other is generally a bad thing and can start to block out all the other things in your life. Being part of some "perfect couple" puts weird pressure on a pair not to fight, or not to let others know you fight, which is unhealthy. Respectfulish "fighting" is the only way to move forward as a couple without breaking up or breaking each other's faces. I know for a fact Beyonce obsesses over looking like she has the perfect relationship with her Freemason husband, Jay Z. Yeah right, she's just a super shiny mason jar just like the rest. So, try never to brag about or flash your relationship around because it only makes others want what you have...in a bad way. The thing is, you never even know who is crazy and who will stalk you. Remaining private sustains love and sex better than being too open and chatty about your sex life.
This leads me to how we use our bodies in sex. We must never forget that, in essence, our bodies are sexual. So many women think they should be able to wear revealing things and then go out and not be oogled...like men are soooo gross and impolite who even look at them. But ladies, if you wear short shorts and a tube top, dudes are going to look at you and your balking isn't going to stop that. I think women, being the less sex-obsessed gender, don't understand just how sexually charged stuff is for men. Girls these days don't get that we are inherent sex objects for men. Even if you are wearing a sack or a burqa, there is at least one dude that will look you over just because you're not another dude. Women are beautiful, smooth, soft, and they always will be; it drives men wild and they love it and they always will. So if you don't want to be seen for only your soft, smooth skin, don't show it to everyone. Men can hardly do things because they are so into women. The least you can do is help them out by not letting your ass and tits hang out. Plus when you do that, guys think, "well shit, she'll let anyone see her junk, so it's that much more likely that she'll just go ahead and sleep with me..." about you over a girl who is not letting her parts show. And can you blame them? Women were made to attract and have alluring beauty, but when they take advantage of that, it creates an imbalance in the order and other women suffer. Plus, in a way, dressing slutty and fucking fluently is disrespectful to the women who don't have that choice. All the child sex slaves and all the humans trafficked: they are forced to be alluring and slutty and don't have the choice to be chaste and wait for their one true love. Throwing away your propriety and joining the ranks of satanic sluts is a travesty for the men, women and children who don't get to choose for themselves what do with their bodies. So choose to acknowledge your sexual power, but not to abuse it, because there are people out there who are dying and being raped daily, all day. Playing the whore only fortifies the mirror magic that keeps them all enslaved...
But the good life, the good sex, its out there, but you really must break many barriers to find it. The first being that you must realize that much of the system is in place to keep women suppressed. Misogyny is the name of the game because the shady men, the ones who run things, know that women are spiritually stronger. Women are inherently on a higher plane and are farther down their karmic paths than men. Technically, women have already been men and when they wield magic, it is far stronger than men's magic. Men like the Freemasons seek to steal this natural feminine magic and institutions like the Catholic Church cut women out of spiritual ascension because they know we are the stronger, truer spiritual leaders. Even Judaism seeks to subjugate women's natural spiritual strength. In essence, the Divine Feminine has been castrated from religion, with no roots in the Light and few in the Shadow. The true story of spiritual sex and holy union has been erased and lags sadly behind policies like abstinence and the cult of virginity.
True sex belongs to the Gods, however. Real, earthshaking, mind-blowing sex is a gift from above and we should thank the Gods before and after we engage in the precious exercising of our bodies in the arts of love. This is one of the reasons I can't understand why the Church acts like sex is a dirty, evil thing, except that they are the ones being so dirty. People don't know, but the Catholic Church is really the church of satan and worships things like pedophilia, rape, and enslaving women. It's actually run by demonic aliens who use actual human sacrifice, often babies, in evil dark magic. NEVER EVER take communion, it is an evil magic mirror to the real human sacrifices being made. But the worst crime of the Catholic Church is their treatment of Mary Magdalene. Mary was the BRIDE and the WIFE of Christ and this should not be a problem to a religion with healthy sexual values. Besides, what self respecting revolutionary runs around with his mother anyway? And what Jewish man wouldn't have been married then? The fact is that Mary was a person, married to Jesus, and she lived just as revolutionary a life, if not more, than Christ himself. Mary is the Female Christ and the more spiritually powerful of the two, being a woman. She was the core and fount of the spiritual movement in Christ's revolution. She bankrolled Christ, was well studied in spirit and magic and helped pull off the crucifixion, Christ's greatest trick. She had her own female disciples and ran circles around the high ranking men of her day with her magic and wits. The fact that this woman has been forgotten and made into Jesus's mother is a horrific misuse of what we call "history". The fact that Jesus and Mary drew strength and love from each other in their private life is the reason she has been castrated from Christianity: if people knew how much power is in their sex lives, they wouldn't need things like the government and the church. And so, of course, the bad, stupid men, in their ever-evil bid for power, create a shitty world where Mary doesn't exist and Christ never had sex so that we do not reach out and grab hold of our own sexuality and the life the true God wants for us all. Boo
This is why I believe that lesbianism is sometimes helpful. Women reaching out to other women and seeking, perhaps, the lost Magdalene in others is a good thing. She is also Isis and Venus and Lilith and Durga. The Magdalene simply represents the beautiful and smart and spiritual woman who resists what the system tells her to be and forges her own path. Her union with Christ represents the highest, most useful form of sex, but sometimes a Magdalene must find herself in another woman first. Lesbianism can give a woman room to just be a woman, to accept her body, mind and spirit in the presence of another woman. It is also a chance to work out mommy/sister issues through a projection, which, truly, is what most lesbian relationships really are. It allows women to appreciate other women better, it teaches them to talk to and deal with other women more completely, not just tangentially. And in turn, what men say, what the system says, it all just falls away in the presence of two women who love and accept each other. Plus the sex is really nice and not violent, for women who have inherent sex issues. On the other hand, being a lesbian can promote some weird stuff, like how gender issues still happen. One woman may become more aggressive and dominant like a man, and this can lead to all kinds of imbalances. Or both women may maintain their natural feminine passivity and then nothing gets done. No one has sex and everyone eats a lot; nothing gets talked about and everything is repressed. Plus there is the weird competition factor like, often women get together with girls that they secretly want to be like, but then they get mad when that person does stuff they wish they could do. Like my ex and I, she would get mad at me when I wanted to dance alone, because she couldn't dance alone, things like that. Add the weird half-validating and half-incriminating American attitude and lesbianism can get kinda stolid and stuffy, especially in public. But as a reaction against the Church, which it kinda is, lesbianism can help a girl discover her Magdalene self.
So let us speak a while about compatibility. Every relationship, if it is spiritual, should mirror Jesus and Mary's love for each other, for their friends, and for their cause of peace and forgiveness. So in essence, every man must strive to be a Christ and every woman a Magdalene. But within this there are infinite versions of the union: like Ross and Rachel or that Moulin Rouge movie. But the key is risk; one must risk something to be with the other. A typical Magdalene comes from on high, a notorious family, a famous parent, a royal line and she risks her reputation to be with the Christ, a mangy revolutionary. A Christ must risk his safety or his life or something to be with the Magdalene and both of them have to cast off some part of society for the other. Most Mary/Jesus couples are brought together under a cause, such as legalizing Marijuana or helping animals. But the point is, everyone is Jesus and everyone is Mary, but finding the right Christ or Magdalene for you requires a lot. A good place to start is the stars. When we are born, our spirit, which is the same as all other spirit, gets shot through reality into our bodies and the only thing that really separates us from others is our starskin, or how the planets affect you at your time and place of birth. A Mary/Jesus pair will likely be born at opposite times of year because they are opposites, opposites that make up perfectly for what the other lacks, so that they make a well functioning team. But this kind of holy union requires serious balance and it's good to know about your partner's astrological person and how well it gets on with your astrological self. This website is very good for all things astrology: www.astro.com.
Understanding the planets and how they affect us can help you know yourself and your lover better. A large part of this knowledge is understanding your shadow self. Carl Jung taught me this. The idea of the psychological shadow is as essential as it is an enigma. "The Shadow" is a reference to that which we do not look at, in our minds, bodies and spirit. Like the butthole is perpetually in shadow, aka not something we think of often, because we don't look at it. This generally makes the shadow a charge-neutral zone; it's not like everything in the shadow is bad: we also hide our strengths there. I sometimes feel I hide my beauty there because it's overwhelming to have people freak out about your face everywhere you go. And honestly, the shadow is where we find our salvation. While all the bad things you hide from yourself lie in the shadow, so do the talents you are too afraid to focus on or reckon with. In the shadow, you find all the good things about yourself you are too afraid to use because you might overshadow someone or because your daddy says it isn't no good. For me, being sexy was always in a grey zone. It is in my starskin that I am sexy, but growing up with everyone trying to fuck me, I sort of stuffed my allure away and resisted my appeal. But now I know that I can minimize my sex appeal on the streets and leave plenty of room for sensuality in the bedroom.
This brings up paradox, or the notion of split approaches. It is favorable to understand that life isn't about light vs. dark but rather light from the darkness and the shadow in the light. Knowing when to engage in your light self and when to work with you shadow are important skills which are often connected. Like in the light, you may be a ball-busting lawyer but in the bedroom you want someone dominating you, smothering you, forcing you. Or you may be a quiet librarian type who wants to fucking whip people and tie them up and use handcuffs and chains. It's all ok and it's all good as long as its consensual and you know, you like check with the Gods, and make sure you really want to do whatever you're doing. Your sex life can be a really wonderful, safe place to work out whatever shadow stuff builds up due to who you are in the light. The important thing is to access the depths of your psyche and leave no issue unplumbed because sex should be the playground and therapists couch, all in one. Dare I say it even?? Sexual healing, anyone?!
All witches should be familiar with Lilith, goddess of chaos, death and sex. She is many things: one being an astronomical entity, another being a pseudo-historical figure, and as another she is a sheer force of nature. Lilith is known as the Dark Moon and represents an absence more than a presence, sort of like a vagina. The moon travels around the earth in an ellipsis, much like how planets travel in a solar system with two suns. Except, somewhat mysteriously, the spot where the second sun would be is just empty and as the moon travels around the earth, this phantom spot imposes itself gravitationally, as they all make their way around the Sun. This phantom moon space is known as Lilith, or the Dark Moon. She was also supposedly Adam's first wife, not made from his rib but created alongside him, Lilith wouldn't submit to him and lie under him during sex and basically told him off and ran from the Garden of Eden and became the Divine Prostitute, a terribly important deity in serious need of a bath. Lilith is the part of femininity that deals with death, violence and power. She is extremely sexy, yet uncouth; and she is the force in you that tells you its ok to slap a man every now and then because it might teach him something. She is the lusty, louche rebel inside you, the mother who gives life only to take it away. But currently, prostitute energy is out of control, and Lilith's persona has dropped the divine part all together. Girls aren't just compelled to woo nowadays, they are straight up attacking and even begging guys to fuck them. It's a perversion of the divine part of the prostitute identity, which can be very helpful. Lilith and the Divine Prostitute energy is where a woman's bravery, grit and wild wit come from. It is unfortunate that the positive side of the prostitute persona is quickly being lost.
What we must realize is that there is a "prostitute self" within all of us, and while there is wild abandon and fantastic pleasures there, there is also rot, corrosion and death. For one thing, the sex slave trade and its mirror magic have really put a downer on all prostitute energy around. Which sucks, because Divine Prostitute energy can be really invigorating and cataclysmic. The idea of a Divine Prostitute goes back to Egypt or the Fertile Crescent or something and basically entails that the acolyte priestess ladies of the temples embodied the Goddess and could be called on to help others access this wonderous presence...by having sex with them. It was believed that since women could more easily attain sacred senses, the men who were with them when they were in tune could also reach higher with their spirits than normal. And this was like a ritual practice and the women were essentially divine prostitutes. A great example of the Divine Prostitute is Marijuana. Lady Ganga is always available to people who want to partake of her crystalline flower jizz and get high. In these ways the prostitute energy is good, but, like the plant, the prostitute will turn on you. Not only will she steal your money, she will call your wife and tattle about you and then kick you in the balls, all at the same time. She doesn't take shit off of nobody and will straight up kill you if she has to. Not to mention that sleeping with prostitutes literally shortens your life as you like burn up in her flames. (Plus this unholy sex is against nature, who then attempts to kill you) That's why all Nancy Botwin's husbands die on Weeds, her vagina burns them up, sucks the life out of them. This is the main difference between the prostitute and the Divine Prostitute: the divine one gives out life while the unholy one is like drinking from the poisoned cup: it kills.
But if you can find and work with your divine prostitute you can basically rule the world. Learning how much of yourself to give helps with everything including business, love and life. Once your prostitute self is running smoothly, so will you be. Reigning in the prostitute inside you includes attempting not to outshine everyone, not to interact with too many people, not to wear too much make up, or the color pink too much, which symbolizes the prostitute identity. One must also be careful of using people, especially those of the same gender, as this is over-the-line prostitute territory. The defining characteristic of this persona is the idea of interacting with a ton of people in a meaningless way. Grocery store clerks come to mind, as do teachers and hair dressers. Interacting with too many people can leave you drained with an over active prostitute persona at the end of the day. Prostitutes also spend their money unwisely, so it comes as no surprise that hoes buy crap, and lots of it. Drugs and dealers, sports players and fans, priests and acolytes: these are all prostitute positions because of their heavy human interaction. The best thing you will ever do for yourself is reign in your prostitute persona. Unless of course you could use a boost in that area...
If you can't seem to make money or friends or find a lover, you could pump up your divine prostitute self to attract energy. It is she, after all, who makes your money and draws people in. You may want to even reach into your High Priestess self, aka the part of you that is still and subconscious and full of hidden, occult knowledge. This is not the prostitute, who is all here and now and is less interested in knowing things than in having them. The High Priestess does not have sex, she sits still at the gates to the beyond and guards ancient knowledge about time, spirit, and death. These two personas are technically opposites, but colliding extremes is what I'm all about. Being able to be gregarious and forthcoming as well as modest and quiet is an important balancing act. But acting well outside the bedroom about sex brings order and understanding to the acts committed in the bedroom. You don't want to attract gross people with your prostitute self and if you are, it's likely because your prostitute self is lackluster. Reel it in before you go fishing. Then the trick is, you must find someone who's prostitute self is similar to yours so that you won't outshine each other outside or inside the bedroom. Because both prostitutes within both of you needs to be expressed or they will freak out because you've relegated them to the shadow. And the thing about the shadow is, it will fuck you up. If you suppress a lot of stuff, it is much more likely your prostitute self will break free of your shadow and wreck havoc on your life. You might drunk dial, trip and break something, or fall and fail in some unforeseen way... because there is always space for the shadow to rear its thorny crown and crucify you. But maintaining your High Priestess and Divine Prostitute selves can go a long way in forestalling these kinda of karmic accidents.
I want to take a second to talk about gay men. Some of my best friends are gay men, but I have to say, I watch their sex lives with something like dismay. I am also not entirely convinced that men being into other men isn't just about them being forcibly conditioned against women by overbearing mothers who sexualize their sons and absent yet valuable fathers... But the thing about gay men is that they are either angels turning pain and shame into love and devotion, or they are devils, taking advantage of another's pain and shame and turning it into power and manipulation. This is because your shitshoot is all about releasing shame, just like peeing is all about removing fear. Having anal sex stimulates your shame impulse, which can lead to breakthroughs otherwise unavailable to you; however, dominant/submissive-oriented butt sex can really just plug up your shame forever so you can't have spiritual and intellectual deaths and you always feel out of control. So it's not male homosexuality that itself is whack because male angels are often gay, its just that booty sex can be like, the utmost good for rebirth or the utmost evil for subversive powerplay shit. So really, it's not that homosexuality is bad, it's just that gay dudes are usually either angels or demons based on their sex lives, which can play a disproportionate role in their lives because dudes are horny... And I doubt I need to tell you guys that money and things can play a heightened role in homosexual relationships because they are sometimes really focused on sex, which is equivalent to money in the spirit world. And not just men, lesbians will often have one woman supporting the other financially and it can lead to weird imbalances and recursive emotional patterns. But over all, homosexuality is just another way to engage with your femininity or masculinity in a very hands on way.
Now I want to talk about men who are feminized, which is almost all men, to some extent. Evil programming often pumps men up and puts them down at about the same time, to the point that men end up having really weird notions about achievement, sex, and beauty. False sexual scripts are imposed on men, too. Men who are subjugated by other men are usually feminized as a means to control and suppress them and then they in turn treat women really shitty to try to make themselves feel better about everyone putting them down all the time. Whether the boss, the father, or the teacher, praise and appreciation are usually in short supply between men. It's everywhere, and nowhere is it more serious than in the brotherhood of the Freemasons. They have all these levels and all this coded conduct but its just stratification: to keep the uppers separate from the lowers, always empowering top/bottom mentality. In other words, those dicks love their I'm-better-than-you system where the young lower guys suck the old upper guys' dicks, literally. And then those disgruntled young men go home and treat the women in their lives like shit. They also might internalize this feminizing and start to get all metrosexual, and try to be beautiful, fetishizing female beauty while at the same time objectifying and repressing women in real life. This is how generations of confused, heedless, misogynists are made.
But real, true sex can blow volcanoes, shake the ground, and change your life. What most people don't understand is that emotions and gravity are very related and having emotional, present, holy sex warps spacetime. Each person's orgasm is like an asymptote that can briefly reach through space and time and touch the spirit world. If a double orgasm is achieved, the possibilities are endless. If you throw in tantric sex in the Lotus position with candles and incense at a New Moon, you can really do things. People don't understand sex is a wonderful tool that can make you fly above the malaise. Plus, after you have sex, you're like invincible for a little while. It's a great time to strike at enemies. Mrs. Pacman knows: once she eats a fruit, aka has sex as food and sex are both spiritual tender, she can then conquer the ghosts that normally chase her. Sex gives you wings and shields and power, plus with anyone you are sleeping with, there is a basic level of protections there. Anyone you love really, is protected by that love; it's all very Harry Potter but it's true. Having good, loving sex not only attracts wealth but gives you protection and power.
Real women draw strength from their men and can use that to fight. Women are strongest fighting with magic, but physical prowess is their domain, too. Women often have better reflexes, balance, and focus. They can be better at riflery, archery, surfing, painting, pool, ping pong, golf, frisbee, kayaking, anything where fine motor skills are needed, women can excel. But a true Magdalene would not like to show up her Christ, instead allowing him to shine so that others might listen to him. The Magdalene may be the female Christ, but her domain is within. The male Christ travels around and makes speeches and breaks bread and undergoes crucifixion. The Magdalene does magic and meditates and cooks and cleans and makes sure the disciples are getting along. She provides the depth while Jesus is the breadth and together they are more than the sum of their parts, aka they are strongest together as one makes up for what the other lacks. Without Jesus, Mary would sit in a room and only be able to share her wisdom with the few who sought her out. But with Jesus, her ministry has no limit and she becomes unbound by space. The same is true for Jesus, without Mary he might just be running around pissing people off, never quite reaching those spiritual heights, never quiet having the right words, or the right timing; for time is feminine just as space is masculine. They are like two atoms, sharing electrons, to make a bigger, better molecule. Every woman is the earth for every man's tree, but without both, nothing grows. Every Magdalene needs her Christ as much as he needs his Magdalene.
But now, I want to take a moment to talk about sluts. She may look like a daydream, but trust me, that bitch is a nightmare. And you may think she's hot, but that's because she's made of Hellfire. Loose women kill, the end. And often, women are manipulated and don't even know it and think they're being "revolutionary" with their sex lives or something. Like Jessica Alba in Sin City, her character wasn't revolutionary, it was just more prostitute programming. Here is a model of her, dressed to impress men and sitting under symbols I am certain she does not understand. This arch is a Freemason symbol indicating summer and the solstice, a period of time defined by the greatest amount of Sun, or masculinity. And so it is like this objectified woman, who has now become an actual object, is sitting under the Royal Arch of Freemasonry and just oozing misogyny without even realizing it. The problem with sluts is that they often think their sexual behavior is just their own and doesn't affect anyone else. But it does: their siblings and parents and friends all have to deal with fallouts and pregnancies and gossip. It's a pretty selfish point of view, honestly, because beyond even these people, the older and younger generations that see and hear things and are also affected by how young women conduct themselves sexually.
Now let us speak of sex changes. My first impression is that the change from male to female is a more advanced, advancing move than the female to male switch. My second impression is that we should all find a way to be happy with what the Universe gave us, but I don't feel that I should say that sex change operations should never happen. The woman in this photo was once a man, or may still even have a penis. It took time for this to dawn on me. Taking estrogen gives men smoother flesh and shrinks their junk and can even grow them breasts. This all seems like magic to me, just like glittery dresses and makeup can work wonders on a dude. I like drag queens, but I think we all know they are prostitute-like. They love the spotlight and tips and rhinestones and glitter. But of course not all transgenders are men who dress as women. There are some women who decide to turn male, but from what I've read, these women are often unprepared for the sexual urges that testosterone brings. Which seems ridiculous because these women don't have penises with which to satisfy that end... I must say, this evolution seems more of a de-evolution than part of some revolution... But interestingly, the Magdalene identity is sometimes embodies as something like a man in a woman's body. Conversely, Jesus is sometimes identified as being like a woman in a man's body. The Christ couple on That 70s Show, Eric and Donna, come to mind.
But my main point is: sex is meant to be a shadow life, a place where you can be yourself and do what you want and play around with whatever ideas seem good to you and your partner, in the safety of knowing it's secret and private and just between you two. If whips and chains excite you, come on. Pinch, slap, spank, scratch: violence in your sex life gets a lot out of your shadow. If you want to fuck in public spaces or slap someone around, just make sure its agreed on. Because the worst thing you can do is suppress yourself or your partner. Each person has a prostitute self inside of them and each must be honored and appeased. Each person also has a masculinity and a femininity that needs to be expressed, as well as a dominant self and a submissive self. There is even an archetypal "male vagina" and a "female phallus". Many people suppress and bury their masculinity or femininity and to avoid this I advocate change and play in sex: mix it up, don't fall into roles or ruts. Don't be afraid to ask for what you want or to suggest something new. The worst, worst thing you can do is bury your sex live, giving it up to someone else's pleasure or pain. Sex must grow; you will only ever grow if your sex life grows. Sex should be a liminal space where you can test boundaries and work out insecurities. Ladies, you can be a wild, dominant Lilith or a tied-down receiver of pleasure and attention. Or men, you can be a pursuing Mars or your own version of an attracting Venus. Unfortunately, there are so many ways we can displace our sexuality, giving our vital sex energy up to things like alcohol, porn, technology, food, work, school, projects, cars, and clothes instead of actual sex. This is all too easy and takes constant monitoring, but trust me when I tell you fucking a person is better than fucking your computer or a box of donuts or your asshole boss. Learning to consciously direct your sexual energy for your own gain is a big part of learning sex magic.
Now let us speak on the topic of marriage. First of all, the ancient idea of chastity within marriage has all but disappeared. A lot of couples want to fuck like young idiots these days because they don't want to let go of that youth or because they want to be seen as sexy. This is a little ridiculous. The cool thing about marriage is that you can not have sex. You just don't have to, and your partner will still be yours, and when you do do it, it can be really meaningful, useful and loving. Unfortunately there is a war on for people's sexual energy. It is possible to capture and misuse people's orgasmic energy, especially if they are married in the Catholic Church. First of all, English is an evil language and it is not a coincidence that marriage begins with the word mar. Second, the XP type symbol that represents the Catholic Church is actually ancient runes denoting a good union, the X, and the orgasmic joy, the P. Except in the Catholic mash up, the P bisects the X, implying that the orgasms had by each couple married in the Catholic Church goes to fortifying that evil institution. Basically, the Church steals joy (and money) from each Catholic couple; which is like duh, because it's replaced with the Catholic guilt about sex and the body. This is the real crux of things, that our bodies and our sex are powerful and evil institutions like the government and the church attempt to take away your personal power in every way imaginable. It is whack and must stop.
Lastly, I want to talk about the female body, which is equivalent to the flesh of the earth, or the land. People don't realize it, but the land is just like flesh with breasts, vaginas, and penises. Mountains and peninsulas are considered phallic, masculine formations with things like rivers, lakes, valleys being vaginal. You can tell a lot about a place by how its land is formed and where its water flows. Speaking of vaginas, let's talk about them! The ancients understood that the vagina was like the lot cup, or the cup you used to throw dice for casting fortunes. They knew that fate, life and death were all inside a woman and her vagina. They knew it as the gates of birth and space to never touch with pain. Sadly now we live in a rape culture where the vagina has become little more than a dick pocket. Same for the breasts. Boobs are magic, ok? They give life and bring milk. They are the way women take care of people and the world. Women who have malfunctions in the way they care for others often end up having breast cancer or breast implants. Women who are truly terrible mothers, resenting and resented by their children, will get ovarian or uterine cancer. But women who love correctly and take care of themselves and their loved ones should have healthy lady parts. Being kind to your sex organs is also an important part of sex magic. Respect yourself and listen to your vagina, girls, because it's smart, ancient and alive. Do not stuff useless dicks in it or give birth to demon babies of bad baby-daddies. Respect sex, respect yourself and respect your lover because you respect yourself and the choice you made to be with him. Men, hear me when I say that just because she says it's ok, does not mean it's ok. Chivalry and Gentlemanliness have all but disappeared in todays age of texts and tweets but knowing when a girl isn't making decisions that are good for her is important. So is you next step: not sleeping with her, because it's not like you want her forever, or the kid you might have if you have that protectionless sex. Think again, son. Sex isn't worth a dirty baby-mama and problems forever. Respect your dick enough not to stick it in nasty places, like the sex slave system. I realize not too much of this was sex magic per say, but knowing about it all is half the battle. :) Happy Humping!
